11 Jan, 2011

Parents and Family

Most American children and adults are not told on a daily that they are loved. Those three simple words can make a person smile. So, if mom and dad a harping on you for a decision that you made, kill them with kindness. Look at them and say, " I love you guys and I know that you are only reacting this way cause you care." Walk over and give them a hug and if they have anything else to say, listen to them attentively. Do not let you mind wonder elsewhere. They will be happy that you are taking the things they say and listening to them. Also, applying it to your daily life. They will be happy that you are acting like a mature adult, instead of mouthing them off. This will lessen your punishment, but you will not be one hundred percent scotch free. You will still receive a punishment, but it would be worse if you mouthed them off. Also, parents strongly dislike it when they find something out, about you, from another person. So, if you have time.....you should confront your parents no matter how they react. This will also lessen your punishment. But, like I said...you will not be one hundred percent scotch free. Treat your parents with the respect they deserve. In order to get respect, you got to give it. In time, you will see that things will work better this way. Again, if you need advice on anything or if you have any question, just send me a message. I will respond as soon as possible!! :)

11 Jan, 2011

Life

Some of us spend most of our life trying to acknowledge and make God happy. Others spend their life making others happy. We ask ourselves weather to strive for success to make others happy. Some are so fed up with improving others peoples lives and making others happy that they forget about their own needs. Some just lose their old self and turn to other choices like smoking, drinking, or cutting. The calm that they are unworthy and start heading down a horrible path. They think one little mistake will ruin everything. What I have to say is, in life we are meant to make mistakes. If we did not make mistakes then we would not be human. Their is not one person on this Earth that has not made a mistake in their entire life. As when live, we make mistakes, and we learn from them. Try to think up all the beautiful things in life instead of the horrible things. That is mostly leads to suicide, etc. They start thinking about all the arguments that they had with their mom or dad, all the mistakes that the made, that they are worthless, that no one cares about them, and that they will not be missed. Truth is, that some may not even know you, but they will still pray for you and cry about. Any death is always on the news and if it is not on there, people here it from others. You are special and your death will affect a lot of people. People are cruel, that is just the way the world is. It is just a thing that you have to walk into with your head held high and the up most confidence in yourself!! If you need any more advice, just send me a message!! :)

15 Dec, 2010

Life

In life people are ignorant and do not know how to mind their own business. You will lose the ones that are closest to you. For instance, I had to put my dog, Midnight, down Sunday. It was a hard decision, but I knew she would be in a better place. I still cry today. The reason why I stated that is, because all throughout life you will have to make tough decisions. Some of them you might not want to answer. What people need to understand that once you leave high school it is all up to you. Every decision you make has a consequence. There will be people who agree and disagree with you. All I can say is you do what you believe in and do not let anyone change your mind. You cannot rely on other people in the real world, because some of them are very greedy and will do anything to get money. Sometimes even stabbing, the person they love most in the back.